What Would You Do? Someone Hurt Me

Thursday, April 23rd, 2026

What would you do if, during a Sunday school activity, a child quietly tells you that someone at home has hurt them?

They may seem nervous or unsure, speaking in a low voice or looking around before sharing. In that moment, they’ve trusted you with something serious.

What you do next matters.

Start With Listening

Stay calm and listen carefully.

Thank the child for telling you and reassure them in a simple, supportive way:
“I’m glad you told me. You’re safe here.”

Do not express shock, make promises you can’t keep, or ask leading questions. Your role is to listen, not investigate.

Be Clear About Next Steps

It’s important not to promise secrecy.

Let the child know that, to help keep them safe, you will need to share this information with someone who can help. Keep your language simple and reassuring.

Document What Was Said

As soon as possible, document:

• The child’s exact words
• Date and time of the disclosure
• The setting in which it occurred

Stick to facts – do not add assumptions or interpretations.

Follow the Proper Reporting Process

Report the disclosure immediately to your organization’s leadership. They are responsible for taking the next steps, including contacting appropriate authorities if needed.

Your role is to report, not investigate or resolve the situation on your own.

What Not to Do

• Don’t promise to keep the information a secret
• Don’t question the child extensively
• Don’t confront a parent or suspected abuser
• Don’t delay reporting

Handling the situation incorrectly can impact both the child’s safety and any formal investigation.

Keep the Child Safe

Ensure the child remains in a safe, supervised environment. Continue to be calm and supportive while the situation is being addressed.

Why It Matters

Safe Gatherings provides organizations with the training and structure needed to respond appropriately in moments like this through clear protocols, documentation standards, and accountability.

When leaders are prepared, they can respond with confidence and care.

The Takeaway

When a child speaks up, listen.

Stay calm. Document. Report.

Because how you respond in that moment can make all the difference.